Dan & Phil Part 50: Should we kiss now?

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Moonbeamsonthepath wrote:He certainly makes it sound like he rejected Rejects 2 because "Not now, not yet".
And we did say that it looks like he was meant to go on a date with Phil in the script.
I know it doesn't mean anything and he wouldn't have meant it that way, but it's too good an opportunity
I noticed this too probably meant nothing but I'll still analyse it to death anyway
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interruptfireworks wrote:
thephandommenace wrote:And appaz they're working on a FILM???! Or Dan was referring to his latest high calibre sketch idk
ooo i saw a thread on twitter about this earlier!! it seems kinda plausible to me and if that's the case i'm excited.

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Ooh thanks! I have no idea how to find threads/news like this on Twitter, I just type things like #danandphil #phan and hope for the best. I can't wait to see how this turns out
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Moonbeamsonthepath wrote:He certainly makes it sound like he rejected Rejects 2 because "Not now, not yet".
And we did say that it looks like he was meant to go on a date with Phil in the script.
I know it doesn't mean anything and he wouldn't have meant it that way, but it's too good an opportunity
Tom already said/clarified in a last week that tinder was the one who rejected rejects 2. Dan and Phil had no prior knowledge until after it was rejected that he wrote it and stuck it in last week.
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BuffyFiona wrote:[*]When he said "a lot of people, even Zoe & Joe, have done videos" on tinder, it made me wonder why he singled them out like even them... because they're siblings? because they're taken? because they usually don't do spons (I have a feeling this isn't it but I've never watched any of their vids so what do I know)... just made me curious
I thought that was Dan just trying to evade saying that it was a sponsored video, so he listed some other youtubers that have done it. His reluctance to say when they're paid to do something is slightly annoying, though maybe I just feel that more strongly after how blunt tomska is about his brand deals. Has Dan or Phil ever even said the words 'brand deal'?
BuffyFiona wrote:[*]He was scared to talk to people actually trying to find people to "play board games with" hmm... as opposed to Dan, who already has someone we know he plays board games with...
lmao he totally didn't think through the connotation there
BuffyFiona wrote:[*]It sort of sounded like he was the one who rejected Rejects 2... which is interesting... maybe not though and he was just glad that Tinder rejected it and they got to do something new?
I actually feel like this is just Dan not wanting to refer to brand deals as such again. We already know from Tom that the idea got rejected. Maybe it happened that the original Rejects script got shot down by Tinder, Tom rewrote it, and then Dan shot that one down? But I doubt it. I think it was just Dan trying to explain why they weren't doing it and not realizing quite how honest Tom is about the process.
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Moonbeamsonthepath wrote:He certainly makes it sound like he rejected Rejects 2 because "Not now, not yet".
And we did say that it looks like he was meant to go on a date with Phil in the script.
I know it doesn't mean anything and he wouldn't have meant it that way, but it's too good an opportunity
Tom already said/clarified in a last week that tinder was the one who rejected rejects 2. Dan and Phil had no prior knowledge until after it was rejected that he wrote it and stuck it in last week.
yeah, basically that
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interruptfireworks wrote:
thephandommenace wrote:And appaz they're working on a FILM???! Or Dan was referring to his latest high calibre sketch idk
ooo i saw a thread on twitter about this earlier!! it seems kinda plausible to me and if that's the case i'm excited.

(not quite sure how to embed twitter links in here so here ya go): https://twitter.com/deathielhowell/stat ... 5581146112
I so badly want this to be real I might cry if it's not
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Ablissa wrote:
interruptfireworks wrote:
thephandommenace wrote:And appaz they're working on a FILM???! Or Dan was referring to his latest high calibre sketch idk
ooo i saw a thread on twitter about this earlier!! it seems kinda plausible to me and if that's the case i'm excited.

(not quite sure how to embed twitter links in here so here ya go): https://twitter.com/deathielhowell/stat ... 5581146112
I so badly want this to be real I might cry if it's not
don't do this to me. why would you do this? now i'm all excited because i'm in one of those dumbass moods where i'm willing to believe any random theory and now when we do actually find out about that week in march i'm going to be disappointed. now i have to work on lowering my expectations i hope your happy
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it turns out Phil got ill after all, poor thing. although now that Dan mentioned filming a gaming video on Thursday even if his voice doesn't recover by that time, I kind of wish to see that. I'm a terrible person
anyway, I hope he'll get well soon and I mean it, laryngitis is no fun
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I am not a merch person at all, but what do you guys think of the plushies? I can't help but find them a bit weird Sure, the photo contest results were really funny but definitely not my thing.
I am not judging, but if someone has them - what was your motivation to buy them? Because they are cute to look at like normal (animal) plushies, because it's funny and rAnDoM like the masks, to support the boys, or for another reason?
I'm not a fan of stuffed toys or anything like that and wasn't really that excited about the plushies in the first place. but then Phil said somewhat like, "you can put them wherever you like." and I just pictured them on my bed next to me so vividly that I don't even know why, I felt that I need to have them. there's no logical explanation I guess. is just made me sooo indescribably happy when they finally arrived and I held them in my hands. it's like a piece of them (okay, that sounds creepy) but I mean it in a good way

as for the new ones, I'd like to see the pastel plushies - just to die from cuteness. I imagine tiny flower crowns, Dan in those dungarees... and since Dan kind of promised "no wigs", that makes it perfect imo

the ls was good, it was nice to see him and the stories were fun, and the black and white piano that is colourful like his soul and that he can allegedly play

speaking of future videos - the one about dark humour would be nice. and him playing the piano. though I guess La La Land tune in "My evil piano teacher" was the extent of what we can get :)
in general, I prefer stories and sketches. they somehow never get boring even if I watch them for the umpteenth time. "reasons why Dan's a fail" will always be my favourite series. like Dan said, "the content just comes to us and all we have to do is suffer." I feel truly sorry for him and at the same time can't but crave for more stories
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interruptfireworks wrote:
thephandommenace wrote:And appaz they're working on a FILM???! Or Dan was referring to his latest high calibre sketch idk
ooo i saw a thread on twitter about this earlier!! it seems kinda plausible to me and if that's the case i'm excited.

(not quite sure how to embed twitter links in here so here ya go): https://twitter.com/deathielhowell/stat ... 5581146112
i would fucking kill for this to be true, but only if they're giving us their actual story and not another tabinof/tatinof. like i'd watch the hell out of a doc about them becoming these wildly meeting and falling in love and becoming successful youtubers and what that's done to their lives, but i don't need another 90 minutes of them overexaggerating their personas at me.
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Hey, people with a better understanding of money and business: what would the payment situation be in a spon-collab? Because for the most part I've always operated on the assumption (well it's more than an assumption since many people have said as much) that collabs are usually just mutually beneficial business transactions friendship playdates in order to get all up in each others subscribers (ew sorry). Like Louise and Dan weren't signing contracts or exchanging money to hang out and discuss an awkward dinner, etc. But if he's going to be a huuuuge draw for a spon on Tomska's channel, is it likely he'll get a cut of the payment? Or otherwise paid as a one-off thing by TurboPunch? I'm just curious.

(and I haven't seen the ls yet, but did Dan make any mention of Phil being involved? I'm kind of hoping for a little laryngitis-y cameo)
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Not that I don't love a good conspiracy, but on rewatch, when he says "I guess I'm gonna... film... and work on this, uh... (film, maybe?)... video going on DINOF", he's just questioning/retracting the verb "film" from his sentence, implying that it's more likely that he will only work on it and not actually film it yet.

They may still have a project of some type in the works based on other clues, but this wasn't really a hint.
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apathy wrote:Not that I don't love a good conspiracy, but on rewatch, when he says "I guess I'm gonna... film... and work on this, uh... (film, maybe?)... video going on DINOF", he's just questioning/retracting the verb "film" from his sentence, implying that it's more likely that he will only work on it and not actually film it yet.

They may still have a project of some type in the works based on other clues, but this wasn't really a hint.
tbh i thought this too but that doesn't stop my idiot self from getting unreasonably hyped
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Vanderlyle wrote:
sooo many people have riffed off a style that was very, very danisnotonfire™ - to the extent that is kind of became the new "norm" for a while. it's kind of cool if anyone has time to go back and look at YTers 2011-2012 stuff and see how people have changed.
Dan didn't invent the style, but he certainly popularized it.

I think he's actually mentioned it somewhere himself, but natalie tran was obviously a big influence:
31 august 2010

17 march 2012


I've been rewatching kevin wu's old videos as they are being reinstated (hoping, but not assuming, he'll upload again soon :( )
14 may 2007

14 september 2010


Lilly Singh I think follows the arc you lay out in your comment; older videos from 2011 (that are still up anyway) are mostly talking straight to the camera while her videos starting in late 2011/early 2012 through to the present are pretty consistently character/skit based Types of X or How Not To Y. She's really really good at it.
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queerofcups wrote:
i would fucking kill for this to be true, but only if they're giving us their actual story and not another tabinof/tatinof. like i'd watch the hell out of a doc about them becoming these wildly meeting and falling in love and becoming successful youtubers and what that's done to their lives, but i don't need another 90 minutes of them overexaggerating their personas at me.
i mean i loved tatinof because you could tell how proud they were of it and how hard they worked on it, not because the content was something particularly interesting for me, but yeah, I don't need tatinof 2. I'd be all board the train to a more authentic documentary though. That said, they've drawn really clear boundaries in regards to their personal life and I can't imagine they could be open in the way that would make a compelling documentary about their lives. Not sure what they're up to, will be interesting to see.
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queerofcups wrote:
interruptfireworks wrote:
thephandommenace wrote:And appaz they're working on a FILM???! Or Dan was referring to his latest high calibre sketch idk
ooo i saw a thread on twitter about this earlier!! it seems kinda plausible to me and if that's the case i'm excited.

(not quite sure how to embed twitter links in here so here ya go): https://twitter.com/deathielhowell/stat ... 5581146112
i would fucking kill for this to be true, but only if they're giving us their actual story and not another tabinof/tatinof. like i'd watch the hell out of a doc about them becoming these wildly meeting and falling in love and becoming successful youtubers and what that's done to their lives, but i don't need another 90 minutes of them overexaggerating their personas at me.
found some interesting videos from the director deppy follows
definitely seems like it would make sense for them to work together


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I really liked the liveshow, it felt really positive to me. Dan talking about his video was great, I took away from it that he was happy with how the video turned out and the reception it received. He confirmed Phil took the photos (which we knew) and used the male pickup line as his example for being out in public. I loved that he mentioned that other people are looking to meet people to ‘play board games’, but he wasn’t even trying to meet friends . Also, really glad we did not get sexy internet dating 3.
I am so thankful not to live in my middle school/high school town. Dan’s story of going home is what I feel when I’m home and run to the Wal-Mart by the house. Running into people who knew you at a certain point in your life is scary. Though really Dan, like a cap is gonna hide a 6’3 man. I love his anecdotes on Colin. That boy loves that dog so much.
The thirteenth doctor conversation was great to hear. Like Dan, I haven’t really seen anyone complain, though I’ve seen a lot of people complaining about people complaining. The doctor has clearly regenerated into so many different people, though I am excited that we get to SEE a female doctor now. His connection with the female doctor and moonlight was interesting.
Wimbledon. Can these boys go nowhere without travel drama? I can picture Phil making a run for it once he got out of the car. I’m glad they had a good time, though I feel bad that Phil was sick during it. (also, yes, tennis scoring is weird).
Some other notes:
-I want a pimm now.
-An interesting note that he said to listen to your grandmothers, not parents
-I liked that most of Anthony’s channel was improv. They played off each other really well.
-At 31:38, dan briefly looked like fetus dan.
-Dan spent a good amount of time talking/praising phils video. Chill dude, you don’t want to be too obvious.
-Dan went into talking about his hair. I loved hearing him say never again to straightening his hair. Keep the curly hair forever
-The whole GQ magazine bit. He pulled out a magazine, was talking about how it only got it for the ads, and then shows the ads are all guys.
-Talking about Tomska’s team. Dan only has himself…..and phil’s photography’s skills.
-New gaming channel video when Phil gets better (I guess that’s a good enough excuse)
-Dan is already talking about a new video already. I’m hesitant to believe him since he just uploaded last week.
-I don’t know why, but I love dan casually throwing things. I think its just a funny visual gag.
- The anal tampon shout out from Phil. One, not only was Dan most likely there for that or watching at the time, but he also rewatched it.
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interruptfireworks wrote:
thephandommenace wrote:And appaz they're working on a FILM???! Or Dan was referring to his latest high calibre sketch idk
ooo i saw a thread on twitter about this earlier!! it seems kinda plausible to me and if that's the case i'm excited.

(not quite sure how to embed twitter links in here so here ya go): https://twitter.com/deathielhowell/stat ... 5581146112
Ah yes, My favorite secret project thing of all time that I accidentally found and was the first to actually post about it, the lemonaidmoney follows. But, I really find this persons thread of "evidences" as to what it might be a major stretch though. Also, I'd like to point out that Phil's been following the manager since at least 2012/2013-ish from what i could figure out from twitter follows. But the newest part on there that is a bit interesting is this,

I have a little theory now after seeing this.. In Dan's last live show (the july 4th one), didn't he talked about how he was disappointed in the fact that they didn't get to go to japan for that crunchy roll sponsor? Then was about to tell on another chance to go back but cut himself off and said he'd talk about that in two months? Is it possible that whatever this documentary (fact-ent means factual entertainment) is about, they wanted deps to fly over there but they had do turn it down due to some convention agreement? It seems possible, i guess?
Edit: I went back to the other thread after writing my idea and noticed that idkwhattowrite pointed out the same theory as well!
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BuffyFiona wrote:When he said "a lot of people, even Zoe & Joe, have done videos" on tinder, it made me wonder why he singled them out like even them... because they're siblings? because they're taken? because they usually don't do spons (I have a feeling this isn't it but I've never watched any of their vids so what do I know)... just made me curious
I thought he was comparing the general age of their audience. We know a lot of the phandom is not 18+ but Zoes main audience is children so if she did a video on Tinder, then surely he can.
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I would love for Dan and Phil to come out with a really harrowing documentary because I think it has the potential to be very emotional and inspiring if it's genuine. They both kind of come from humble beginnings and I'm sure the adjustment of having such a big fan base was hard for them and their relationship (whatever it may be and all that jazz). I recently watched Chris Crocker's documentary Me at the Zoo and it made me cry! It really humanized him and made me really sympathize with his situation. But yeah I wish Dan and Phil didn't have a private romantic life (even though I totally would too) just because THAT is an amazing story, but I know that's impossible hahahaha!
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why i can't leave the house (July 18, 2017)

Prompted Phil Mention
8:50 (chat) Please play To the Moon for DanAndPhilGAMES
“We’ve had a few requests for that"

13:20 (chat) You guys should rebrand to DanAndPhilGOOGLE
“Oh god, the Higher Lower Game, we’ll get to that"

40:55 (chat) You and Phil make me happy, tanks
“Thank you but tanks are machines of war and I don’t condone that"

37:50 (chat) Next gaming video
“So this is the thing: Phil [Dan becomes Alanis Morissette], Phil started getting a sore throat and was like, ‘ha, I thought I was gonna get sick, but then I didn’t’, turns out Phil- Phil’s illness was just chilling for a few days [then hit him in the throat]. So Phil can’t talk, which is very funny, just producing a lot of inaudible squeaking noises right now. Incredibly pathetic, like a hedgehog. So we haven’t been able to film any new videos because Phil can’t produce noise, and we thought that would kind of be funny, but then he hasn’t been able to talk, so if every video on the channel for two weeks was just like DanAndAwkwardSilenceGAMES or MemeAndMuteGAMES, as lots of people said on the twitter, so we’ll either film tomorrow or the day after. We’ll let you know. But don’t worry, gaming video this week at some point when Phil can produce noise again.”

39:05 “Did you see the last video we uploaded on DanAndPhilGAMES?”
40:00 “I mean, if there had to be one before Phil lost his voice, I’m so glad that it was that one"

48:55 (chat) Is Phil feeling better?
“Nope. Literally can’t produce noise."
Unprompted Phil Mention
12:35 “So I don’t know if you guys saw this, but in Phil’s penultimate liveshow - I’m just gonna bring this up, I’m just gonna say something really gross right now, but that’s okay - someone [got Phil to say ‘anal tampon’], which I’ve watched back and is the funniest thing I’ve ever seen in my entire life. So shoutout to the group of people that made AmazingPhil say ‘anal tampon’. That was great."
Neutral Phil Mention
19:15 “For some reason, [Instagram] invited Phil and I [to Wimbledon], not complaining, so that was fun.”
20:45 “Something that wasn’t fun was mine and Phil’s experience of arriving. Does anybody want another harrowing Dan and Phil travel story right now, ‘cause I’ve got one for ya, it happened again”
(chat) Did Phil took the pics for you in the Tinder video?
“Yes, talent, honestly. Capturing those crumbs cascading down my rolls.”
22:25 “The people from Instagram were like, ‘oh Dan and Phil yeah, you can get dropped off [at the high security VIP Entrance gate where fancy celebrities in fancy cars get dropped off].”
They rolled up in a taxi like a couple of plebs.
“This [hench policeman verbally harassed their driver to keep moving the car along], so we just got out of the car, Phil was like ‘gotta go fast’, bailed out the door, 'cause if he’s being attacked, or whatever, 'sorry mate, we got some strawberries to eat’, so we just left. And then the guy looks at us when we get out of the car, he gets out his walkie-talkie [to report them as suspicious..] and me and Phil are like ‘oh my god, who do they think we— we were invited! why are we being attacked! we don’t mean any harm!’ [so he was expecting them to get 'peacefully tasered or something'].”
They got their tickets and then were approached by the head of security who got up in their faces and demanded to see their passes. “And Phil’s just like, ‘We have tickets!’ and [the guy sees they have actual tickets and lets them go, hopefully feeling like a bit of a douche].”
25:30 “Anyway. Shook. Honestly, we were in and we were just like, ‘let’s sit down and have a little hyperventilate for 10 minutes”

27:45 “The seats [at Wimbledon] are designed for people that are like really short, so me and Phil were sat in this thing like (scrunches up) ‘Hello we’re two giants cramped in this thing’ [so they were happy it was a short match or game or whatever]”

31:46 “Also: video with Phil called ‘Anthony Dan or a Rat’, the iconic gameshow that is surely just waiting to be on TV. That was actually hilarious.”
“This one on AmazingPhil, we did a quiz where Phil went and found some photos of us on the internet [like the beautiful troll he is]”
“it was quite difficult and Phil found some absolutely horrendous photos of me"

37:10 (about Tomska sketch he filmed yesterday) “Spoiler: it’s really funny.”
37:20 “I’m so jealous of him having so many friends that help him to make his content: writers, producers, editors that just have nice opinions. He has a whole team supporting him. I have myself. And Phil’s photography skills; we can’t forget that credit from the end of that production of that video.”
-so many friends that also happen to be paid employees doing their jobs, Dan. little different.

48:10 (chat) How is Crash Bandicoot going?
“Oh my god, so me and Phil have been playing this Crash Bandicoot reboot”
“I have to think about what would be entertaining necessarily [to play it on DAPG]"

49:30 “On danandphilshop, we have some cute Dan and Phil plushies. Apparently, this comes from Martyn, Phil’s brother, lots of people were saying ‘new outfits’ so Phil did a little poll-erini [on his twitter, go vote]"

52:55 “If Phil ever recovers from his laryngitis, perhaps a gaming video. To be honest, if Phil can’t speak by Thursday, we’ll just film a video where he can’t talk, ‘cause it’s just getting ridiculous”

53:25 “I hope you didn’t take [the Tinder video] too seriously, had a nice time, had a lol, liked all the videos on Phil’s channel, the ones with Anthony, Fine Bros"
Miscellaneous
4:35 “I saw a comment that was like, ‘The only unattractive thing’— you know, 'cause I read my comments 'cause I hate myself - ‘about Dan in this video is his lack of confidence’. Yes. I lack so much confidence that I took a bunch of ugly photos of myself, went on a dating app, and spoke to real people, and then showed that to millions of people on the internet. No, I’m a strange person, I don’t lack confidence and yet I have social anxiety. They’re very different situations.”
-bless this man

7:30 (about the ‘dark’ jokes about himself in Tinder vid) “It was supposed to be negative. That was the joke. And then some people didn’t like the humour, they were like, 'This is too dark, I don’t like-' but you know, that’s my humour. So if you dislike that, for most of my videos, you’re probably gonna have a bad time."

13:45 “So I was invited, reluctantly, to go to a family BBQ over the weekend. So I had to go back to my actual home town, and that is something that fills me with absolute dread.”
“The good thing about going home to visit my family is my family have an amazing dog that I’m sure many of you have seen a photo of”
- 'the good thing about my family is their dog'

17:45 (after discussing the Doctor Who casting) “Lots of people [in the chat] are saying the Doctor now is non-binary, that would be cool. I mean, this is a universe that doesn’t have to have any rules that make sense whatsoever, so let’s push that formless blob agenda.”
-and without Moffat's stupid fingers all over it, maybe it will be not garbage because Jodie Whittaker deserves good things and SO DO WE

40:20 “I got given that jumper” that he wore at Wimbledon. To believe or not to believe.

43:40 (chat) I like your [twitter] header, they did the chins well
“Yeah, they did, George”
-He’s Back
Phinal Tally: said ‘Phil’ 38 times
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fancybum wrote:4:35 “I saw a comment that was like, ‘The only unattractive thing’— you know, 'cause I read my comments 'cause I hate myself - ‘about Dan in this video is his lack of confidence’. Yes. I lack so much confidence that I took a bunch of ugly photos of myself, went on a dating app, and spoke to real people, and then showed that to millions of people on the internet. No, I’m a strange person, I don’t lack confidence and yet I have social anxiety. They’re very different situations.”
Add this to the pile of things that I'm pleased Dan feels comfortable enough to talk about now, but hearing Dan flat out say "I have social anxiety" with no vagueness or self-distancing from it, just... damn. As someone else pointed out to me, it's such a stark contrast from Dan in 2015 trying to dansplain the meaning of the word "anxious" so people wouldn't freak out and make assumptions about his mental health.

And obviously, assumptions shouldn't be made, but that's why it's nice that 2017 Dan uses the word anxiety and doesn't immediately backtrack from it. It makes things perfectly clear, and makes it clear that he's okay talking about it (on his own terms) now.
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That was a nice liveshow overall, nothing amazing but fairly pleasant and calming. That Wimbledon story sounded genuinely terrifying, and I appreciated Dan's description of laryngitis-Phil as pathetic and hedgehog-like

Interesting to hear him explicitly say "I have social anxiety" - kudos to him for feeling comfortable enough to be open about that. Basically, what dizzy said.
apathy wrote:Not that I don't love a good conspiracy, but on rewatch, when he says "I guess I'm gonna... film... and work on this, uh... (film, maybe?)... video going on DINOF", he's just questioning/retracting the verb "film" from his sentence, implying that it's more likely that he will only work on it and not actually film it yet.

They may still have a project of some type in the works based on other clues, but this wasn't really a hint.
Completely agree with you, that's how I interpreted it as well! Assuming it's a collab with Anthony then he's already filmed it and it just needs to be edited (it may not be with Anthony obvs, but I feel like he said a few weeks ago that they'd filmed one together for his channel?).

Also, I find it very unlikely Dan and Phil would ever do a documentary that centred closely on their personal lives - that seems to go against everything they stand for, given that they've worked so hard to ensure that a significant portion of their lives are kept private and separate from their careers on the internet.
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alittledizzy wrote: Add this to the pile of things that I'm pleased Dan feels comfortable enough to talk about now, but hearing Dan flat out say "I have social anxiety" with no vagueness or self-distancing from it, just... damn. As someone else pointed out to me, it's such a stark contrast from Dan in 2015 trying to dansplain the meaning of the word "anxious" so people wouldn't freak out and make assumptions about his mental health.

And obviously, assumptions shouldn't be made, but that's why it's nice that 2017 Dan uses the word anxiety and doesn't immediately backtrack from it. It makes things perfectly clear, and makes it clear that he's okay talking about it (on his own terms) now.
(I kind of always took that 'dansplaining anxious' thing as him trying to defend his use of the word in relation to himself without using a diagnosis or specific term because people can be dicks about assumed self-diagnosis - like unless he's got a signed form from a doctor to show everybody, then he's not allowed to say he has anxiety but rather is anxious about certain things. Not because he didn't want people to know/speculate he struggled with anxiety/social anxiety but because he didn't want people to argue with him or mitigate his experience by turning it into a 'who suffers worse/whose experience of their own mental illness is more legitimate' contest WHICH IS A THING and it is a frustrating thing. I took it as him toning it down (mitigating it himself) pre-emptively so nobody could do it for him. Which I guess is all semantics (because telling someone they don't suffer from something is just another annoying assumption to throw at someone), but tl;dr I agree with you that's it's a great thing that he can just own it freely and unapologetically now, it's really nice)
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Since its almost 6am and I can't sleep and I need to keep myself entertained, 're: the secret project/possible documentary theory.

I do agree that it seems extremely unlikely they'd film a documentary on their private relationship given, well, who they are. They worked extremely hard to keep their private life as distant as possible from their internet life. And yet, 2017 and even 2016 really has already showed cracks in these walls they put up.

I guess what I'm wondering is, given that I 100% believe they are together, in a realistic-not-fangirl way, I do wonder where that leaves us. They're letting us see into their affection more and more, not denying stuff but not confirming. There will be a point though where it will be obvious? I imagine even a couple of years in the Future, a house, a dog..even children? They're both the dad type tbh.

I'm trying to imagine if..no, how they'll give the internet the truth. I don't ever expect a coming out video on YouTube, but I could see being open about it at one point, even slipping it in a casual way during some interactions.

What do you think? (I apologize If this topic has been discussed before, as I imagine. It's insomnia induced rabling)
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God, I need to watch this liveshow. I'll make sure to put it on tomorrow while I clean! Dan talking about Phil taking his tinder pics and hot male models? Literally sounds like my wet dream.

Also thank you fancybum for capturing all the phil mentions, I've noticed it's been a thing you do a lot and its SO HELPFUL just wanted to say thanks!! I don't usually have time to watch the liveshows, so thats super helpful.
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I personally would like Dan to stop whatever he is doing now whether he’s imitating pewdiepie's random phase or experimenting with his new old brand. I think a good idea for him would be to let us know him better as he is now. He has changed his look – tell us why, give us a parody OOTD 2017 edition. He said he had trouble making videos even though he wanted to upload more – elaborate on this. No need to be 100% transparent, make it sarcastic and funny. Talk about youtube conventions and what he likes and doesn’t like about them, and funny stories. Tips on how to be a co-presenter on stage and hold audience's attention, what's the preparation process. Share which political podcasts, reddits, magazines he likes and why. Make a guide on how to survive on tour for 3 months. Advice on how to rent a flat and types of landlords etc.

Also he should scrap all video ideas that are 2 years old even if they seemed genius at the time lol. :)
Are you a Youtuber Advisor? You should send this directly to Dan somehow. Send it to his management. Send it to martyn. Do something. Dan needs these ideas. They're so genius and perfect for him.
onetruetrash wrote:I kinda want him to do some videos playing the piano, at least on his side channel since it probably wouldn't fit on the main channel.
Same. But I think the world ending is more likely.
liola wrote:Dan just said he has never used Tinder, I'm pretending to be shocked
Oh gosh. How unlikely of a thing to be real. I can't believe. Dan, a single lad. Has never used Tinder.
queerofcups wrote: like i'd watch the hell out of a doc about them becoming these wildly meeting and falling in love and becoming successful youtubers and what that's done to their lives,
I seriously think about this all the time and sometimes while I'm cooking or otherwise doing a mindless activity I'll imagine the documentary in my head. Dan and Phil each speaking to the camera about the same situation separately. "I was so excited when he started tweeting me back, but it was also terrifying. Now I actually had to hold his interest, not just catch it." "I just thought he was cool so I tweeted him." And then more serious talking about 2012 and actually opening up about everything and what this whole train ride was like, but from their perspective and with their emotions. And it would end on a very positive, be-yourself-to-be-happy note. I would KILL for this I tell you.
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Vanderlyle wrote:sooo many people have riffed off a style that was very, very danisnotonfire™ - to the extent that is kind of became the new "norm" for a while. it's kind of cool if anyone has time to go back and look at YTers 2011-2012 stuff and see how people have changed.
Dan didn't invent the style, but he certainly popularized it.

I think he's actually mentioned it somewhere himself, but natalie tran was obviously a big influence:
31 august 2010

17 march 2012


I've been rewatching kevin wu's old videos as they are being reinstated (hoping, but not assuming, he'll upload again soon :( )
14 may 2007

14 september 2010


Lilly Singh I think follows the arc you lay out in your comment; older videos from 2011 (that are still up anyway) are mostly talking straight to the camera while her videos starting in late 2011/early 2012 through to the present are pretty consistently character/skit based Types of X or How Not To Y. She's really really good at it.
I'm glad you posted this because I was reading that thinking like "I swear his style was not that original, it was popular at the time" but I didn't have any sources but my memory so I was like "ehhh maybe im wrong." I also feel like on youtube, being emo-looking guys into brightly colored things and anime was unironically in, kind of a post-scene trend. Destrey (CapnDesDes) and Nate come to mind as prime examples, but shane, anthony, joey graceffa, and more at least had the emo hair in 2010-2013ish. Hard to imagine now since it's so out of style. I think it mostly catered to a young demographic that missed the boat on the emo/scene myspace era in its prime, but wanted in. Being properly emo was going out of style, but the hair was still in and elements of the fashion (like black skinny jeans with brightly colored tees.) A softer version of the emo movement I would call it, especially notable in my opinion is that dark, depressing things were out. The emo look was less associated with self-harm and depression, and more associated with social awkwardness, anime, and art.

Anyway, I think Dan and Phil really nailed what that demographic was looking for/liked and it helped with their popularity. But maybe I just say this because I was kinda in that demographic myself and am very bias. What do you guys think?
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liola wrote:Since its almost 6am and I can't sleep and I need to keep myself entertained, 're: the secret project/possible documentary theory.

I do agree that it seems extremely unlikely they'd film a documentary on their private relationship given, well, who they are. They worked extremely hard to keep their private life as distant as possible from their internet life. And yet, 2017 and even 2016 really has already showed cracks in these walls they put up.

I guess what I'm wondering is, given that I 100% believe they are together, in a realistic-not-fangirl way, I do wonder where that leaves us. They're letting us see into their affection more and more, not denying stuff but not confirming. There will be a point though where it will be obvious? I imagine even a couple of years in the Future, a house, a dog..even children? They're both the dad type tbh.

I'm trying to imagine if..no, how they'll give the internet the truth. I don't ever expect a coming out video on YouTube, but I could see being open about it at one point, even slipping it in a casual way during some interactions.

What do you think? (I apologize If this topic has been discussed before, as I imagine. It's insomnia induced rabling)

Don't apologise, this is a topic I actually find really interesting,

Because you are right as much as I agree that they have every right to their privacy and that I doubt they'd make an honest to god documentary about their relationship considering their past stance on such things. It does make me wonder if they do have any plans in place.

Like you said if they are 100% together there will become a point where this is undeniable fact. Forever home, dogs, marriage, kids etc. And when that happens I don't think the fans are going to be the main issue at first. It'll be the media.

They might not be Beyonce or RDJ levels of fame but they are still famous. And the news outlets will want a story.

So you have to ask yourself, do you tell your own (edited & controlled) version of the story or be prepared for whatever garbled version the press spits back out after trawling through the past posts and fan theories. (I don't even want to imagine what a mess would come from fans over exaggerated versions of 2012).

I wish we did live in a world where people don't have to come out because being in love with someone regardless of gender is normalised but unfortunately at the moment that isn't the case.

Idk i just think it'll reach a point where it's going to have to be addressed even if very casually to their audience. But maybe it's just me being overly cynical of how the media would behave. I just don't trust those vultures.
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