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Much like Phil (according to Dan), I am a Hufflepuff and all the more adorable for it.

ilikespaghetti wrote:Much like Phil (according to Dan), I am a Hufflepuff and all the more adorable for it.

Hey me too! Double the adorableness

(this was the worst first post ever. Sorry)

Just realized I never said anything on this thread and that is a big no-no for me

-I am 17 years old and in a few months I am graduating 10th grade
- For the last 3 years I was questioning my sexual orientation but this year I can 100% say that I'm bisexual (not something I would say irl because my country isn't really keen on stuff like this so only my two best friends know about this)
- I am an ambivert and a very curious person
- My first fandom was for a trilogy named Darkest Powers
- I started using the internet at the tender age of 5, so I may have some problems because of that decision
- I have seen 2 people die before my eyes
- I am a very awkward person irl and sensitive
- I have been single for the past 4 years and I had the occasional fling or fwb and I kind of like it that way

My house is Griffindor but I always thought that I was a Slytherin because I relate to it more.
My wand is a silver lime wood with a dragon heartstring core, 12 ¾" and quite bendy flexibility, whatever that means

Since I've been posting here for two days now, I should introduce myself

Where do I start ?

Let's start with basic facts about me :

-I'm 19, born in January, Aquarius.
-I'm French.
-I'm studying English at university in order to become an interpreter.
- I'm 99.9% sure I'm bisexual, I realised I was bi last year when a girl ( that I still have a massive crush on ) and I starting flirting at parties when we were drunk. I felt bad for flirting back because her boyfriend was there ( he was a dick ) but my drunk mind didn't give a fuck.
-um what else ? I am in the 1D fandom which is currently a mess with all the baby conspiracies. I like Little Mix as well.
- I spend all my time on the internet like a lot of us I guess
- Oh and I discovered in 2012 I think, I watched one video of them together. At that time I didn't really understand that Youtube thing and why people were so obsessed with YTbers so I totally forgot about them until 2015, and here I am today too far in the phandom to leave .

I think that's it
Sorry for my rambling nonsense !

NarrysCanary wrote: - I'm 99.9% sure I'm bisexual, I realised I was bi last year when a girl ( that I still have a massive crush on ) and I starting flirting at parties when we were drunk. I felt bad for flirting back because her boyfriend was there ( he was a dick ) but my drunk mind didn't give a fuck.

*Starts humming* Girls like girls like boys do, nothing new...

That is the plot right there.

But welcome

Anonymousse wrote:

NarrysCanary wrote: - I'm 99.9% sure I'm bisexual, I realised I was bi last year when a girl ( that I still have a massive crush on ) and I starting flirting at parties when we were drunk. I felt bad for flirting back because her boyfriend was there ( he was a dick ) but my drunk mind didn't give a fuck.

*Starts humming* Girls like girls like boys do, nothing new...

That is the plot right there.

But welcome

This is kind of funny because her bf slapped her for being drunk ( it angered me a lot ) and if I remember well in the video the boyfriend was a douchebag to his girlfriend as well. My life is a movie

Thank you !

I don't know what's a good introduction, but here we are:

-18 years old
-I skipped a year so I graduated last year
-I did a small course in Graphic Design, I'm studying English next
-I don't really contribute a lot, I'm shy even over the internet so you'll only see me lurking
-Highly introverted, used to get anxiety, not as much
-Found D&P through a friend and began binge watching. Realised I watched a dinof video when I was fifteen but wasn't too impressed
-D&P are my first in-real-ship, I never really see "potential relationships" in people so I don't ship, but I fell down a rabbit hole and now I'm here
-Don't like the tumblr fandom, for obvious reasons and the phandom over on reddit are non-existent so this is the best place for news and dicussion but I'm not complaining considering I actually love this place
-I'm bisexual, I guess. I don't really pigeon hole myself with labels considering I don't really experience attraction with any gender except in random cases
-I'm female but I don't really feel confined in the "gender" but I've no dictionary knowledge of labels and what-not and just go with whatever I feel
-I like horror, sci-fi and anime and like studying film
-My MBTI is INTJ and my Hogwarts house is Slytherin so you can tell I'm fun at parties

I know I'll be lost amongst the masses but any contribution is good contribution, I suppose

Hey guys!!

-I'm bi (wow big surprise)
-I took a semester off so I'm in weird halfway limbo and have to explain my entire history when people ask what year I'm in
-I'm in college here in Amurrica
-Ravenclaw
-but I haven't actually watched all of Harry Potter
-Or read it
-Don't kill me

Hello! I'm Katy!
Here are some sweet, sweet facts, Some serious, some not so much:
-I'm from a small town on a big river in the Deep South of 'Merica
-I'm twenty-six glorious years old
-I'm a classically trained flautist (I almost got me one of them fancy college degrees in Flute Performance until I dropped out of college to "follow my dreams" of being a lazy f**k)
-I am a rehabilitated HP fanfic addict and have since moved on to Teen Wolf because I am a trash can.
-I try my best not to "ship" real humans because it makes me feel a little squicky to speculate on people's personal lives, but I can damn sure squee over something adorable with the best of 'em.
-My brain is a cool place that likes to switch from introvertedness and crippling anxiety to being extremely outgoing and obnoxious at really random intervals, so sorry in advance...
-Probably the most important fact, if I'm going to be interacting with you lovely, sweet, adorable people regularly: I'm a giant a-hole. I come off really mean sometimes, because when I'm uncomfortable my humor can get really dry and often a little offensive. I promise I'm not a mean person! If I upset you at all ever please PM me and I'll try my best to fix it.

Have a lovely day! Nice to meet you all!

NarrysCanary wrote: -I'm 19, born in January, Aquarius.

Hello fellow Aquarius

eevee wrote:-but I haven't actually watched all of Harry Potter
-Or read it
-Don't kill me

Don't worry eevee I didn't read or watch the films at all I guess I just was never that into it after years and years of spoilers.

katybetts wrote:-My brain is a cool place that likes to switch from introvertedness and crippling anxiety to being extremely outgoing and obnoxious at really random intervals, so sorry in advance...

Maybe you're an ambivert like me? My brain does the same thing

Poe wrote:Don't worry eevee I didn't read or watch the films at all I guess I just was never that into it after years and years of spoilers.

I feel so not alone!! I do want to watch them eventually though

Poe wrote: Maybe you're an ambivert like me? My brain does the same thing

That seems like the best word for it! I deal with anxiety and depression and I don't medicate for it (don't worry! I do see a professional regularly) so I wonder sometimes how much of me is REALLY ambiverted and how much of it is my general outgoing-ness being dampened a bit. But all in all I'm pretty healthy and manage everything fairly well so I try not to question it.

eevee wrote:

Poe wrote:Don't worry eevee I didn't read or watch the films at all I guess I just was never that into it after years and years of spoilers.

I feel so not alone!! I do want to watch them eventually though

One of my friends actually managed to make me a little curious about them and I kind of want to watch them at some point when I have a little more free time.

katybetts wrote:

Poe wrote: Maybe you're an ambivert like me? My brain does the same thing

That seems like the best word for it! I deal with anxiety and depression and I don't medicate for it (don't worry! I do see a professional regularly) so I wonder sometimes how much of me is REALLY ambiverted and how much of it is my general outgoing-ness being dampened a bit. But all in all I'm pretty healthy and manage everything fairly well so I try not to question it.

Well, in my case, the anxiety is still present to this day but the depression has faded a lot during the years (seeing a professional really did help a lot. Same about the medicine btw) but I've realised that having depression at the start of my teen years did affect me a little bit, in the way that I've became more introverted than before. But I don't think that it actuality had a big impact, only that the ambivertion (is this even a word?) was more obvious but it wasn't that what made me and ambivert. Hope this makes sense

Poe wrote:

eevee wrote:

Poe wrote:Don't worry eevee I didn't read or watch the films at all I guess I just was never that into it after years and years of spoilers.

I feel so not alone!! I do want to watch them eventually though

One of my friends actually managed to make me a little curious about them and I kind of want to watch them at some point when I have a little more free time.

What I'm gonna do is watch them with a friend so I can be like "wait who is that character again??" and they can keep me in the loop

Here you go, the things I didn't say at my work orientation last week!
- I have an unfortunate vibe that attracts the creepy/needy/unstable guys
- I'm really bad with saving my money
- I will willingly watch horribly made Barbie movies with my little sister to laugh at the potholes and spend time with her that doesn't feel forced
- I want to run my own mermaid buisness (far fetched dream here)

faithonthebass wrote:Here you go, the things I didn't say at my work orientation last week!
- I have an unfortunate vibe that attracts the creepy/needy/unstable guys

probably not your fault i mean, when are guys not creepy/needy/unstable?

daphenaxa wrote:everyone's wand seems to be hard i wonder if it means something

Mine's not

Bringing back the Pottermore talk I'm a proud Slytherin my wand being "Sycamore wood with a Phoenix feather core 11 ¾" and Reasonably Supple flexibility"

Hi everyone! I've been lurking gg and now idb for ages, so I decided to finally post?

- I live in California and honestly think in-n-out is over rated. (I would never tell anyone this.)
- I've been reading and writing fanfiction for eight years, since the tender age of eleven (Ryden was my first otp, Larry was my most obsessive)
- I just finished my first year of college as a psych major.
- Dan & Phil are my little escape from school/work/drama.
- I pretty much worship The Weeknd

I never did this and now I feel like I have to!
Hi everyone, I am a 21 year old straight female
My heritage is mixed with my mom being Persian and my dad being half-Spanish half Afghan
I am a practicing Muslim though I don't wear a scarf
I am currently in University for pre-med I want to become a OBGYN doctor or pharmacist.
I am obsessed with organic chemistry and synthesizing molecules.
I am also a HUGE soccer fan and have been watching/playing since I was little and I think Messi is God
I'm really tiny, only 5'1

In middle school I was bullied by a girl who threw color pencils at my head every day in class because she didnt like me (never told me why) so I collected all the pencils (did you know mauve was a color?) and made her a picture at the end of the year. Also I still have the pencils today because it serves as a reminder that truly awful people exist but that doesn't have to change you.

I struggled with an eating disorder as a freshman in high school brought upon the fact that I was a flyer for my cheer team and let the pressure get to me- Thankfully quit cheer as a junior and went on to join an amazing group of friends whom i still keep in touch with
I have been in a long relationship with my best friend from high school-he is also becoming a doctor for oncology yet sometimes I feel more of a friendly attraction than a sexual one so I don't know how to break it to him
I usually have 6 tabs of phanfic open on my labtop and I sometimes read smut on a bus and try to not look obvious I also spend most of my free thinking time thinking about Dan and Phil and Phan and it's not exactly healthy but it makes me happy so I'll take it.
My whole family, boyfriend and friends know and support me being total Dan and Phil trash- my best friend made me a Dan and Phil fringe mug
I worked many odd jobs including barista in Starbucks, Macy's associate, and Chipotle server (so I love guacamole)
Also HUGE GOT fan!
My first real fandom was HP I had a weird obsessive love for Ron Weasley and found him to be my ideal type and ROMIONE was my first ship ever!
I was also part of the Merlin, Glee and One Direction Phandom (I am Harry Styles trash). I still have all the 1D albums dowloaded on my playlist. I also love Muse and nightcore.
I was a steady viewer of Phil's content but I most recently (2014ish) became more invested in the concept that is phan.
Also this is weird but I really do appreciate everyone on here and it's cool that we built this community where we can be as trashy as we want to and be accepted. I don't struggle with making friends, but I always feel at war with myself in whether being social makes me happy. I find myself enjoying online interactions/friendships more because I can really be myself with ease.

kuensukki wrote: In middle school I was bullied by a girl who threw color pencils at my head every day in class because she didnt like me (never told me why) so I collected all the pencils (did you know mauve was a color?) and made her a picture at the end of the year. Also I still have the pencils today because it serves as a reminder that truly awful people exist but that doesn't have to change you.

Wow, you're a much better person than me I really admire that. I was bullied in high school by a boy who threw empty juice boxes at my head during lunch and I ended up fighting him and squeezing a tangerine into his eyes. Different schools of thought, I suppose.

bedhead91 wrote:

kuensukki wrote: In middle school I was bullied by a girl who threw color pencils at my head every day in class because she didnt like me (never told me why) so I collected all the pencils (did you know mauve was a color?) and made her a picture at the end of the year. Also I still have the pencils today because it serves as a reminder that truly awful people exist but that doesn't have to change you.

Wow, you're a much better person than me I really admire that. I was bullied in high school by a boy who threw empty juice boxes at my head during lunch and I ended up fighting him and squeezing a tangerine into his eyes. Different schools of thought, I suppose.

That's amazing!! Yea it took a lot of control on my part to get violent but no one really approved of her doing it and some girls would scoot their desks next to mine and get hit too. This is in American school where teachers are blind to everything I was also pretty shy because I was the new kid and didn't know anyone so I didn't feel comfortable fighting back. So yea, she was horrible but I was also surrounded by pretty great people who had my back.

kuensukki wrote:
In middle school I was bullied by a girl who threw color pencils at my head every day in class because she didnt like me (never told me why) so I collected all the pencils (did you know mauve was a color?) and made her a picture at the end of the year. Also I still have the pencils today because it serves as a reminder that truly awful people exist but that doesn't have to change you.

wow that is such a strong and amazing thing to do. That's a beautiful gesture really. What was that girl's reaction to that?

kuensukki wrote: I struggled with an eating disorder as a freshman in high school brought upon the fact that I was a flyer for my cheer team and let the pressure get to me- Thankfully quit cheer as a junior and went on to join an amazing group of friends whom i still keep in touch with

oh I suffered from that too. I am happy you are better and happy now!

kuensukki wrote:
I usually have 6 tabs of phanfic open on my labtop and I sometimes read smut on a bus and try to not look obvious I also spend most of my free thinking time thinking about Dan and Phil and Phan and it's not exactly healthy but it makes me happy so I'll take it.

same...

kuensukki wrote:
Also this is weird but I really do appreciate everyone on here and it's cool that we built this community where we can be as trashy as we want to and be accepted. I don't struggle with making friends, but I always feel at war with myself in whether being social makes me happy. I find myself enjoying online interactions/friendships more because I can really be myself with ease.

yeah that is very true. I really really love this community too (with a few exceptions, I gotta say I was really shocked catching up on the last thread today at the 1st pages)

daphenaxa wrote: wow that is such a strong and amazing thing to do. That's a beautiful gesture really. What was that girl's reaction to that?



yeah that is very true. I really really love this community too (with a few exceptions, I gotta say I was really shocked catching up on the last thread today at the 1st pages)

I left it on her desk and she crumpled it and laughed with her two guy friends (who she had also ordered to throw things at me) I didn't expect much from her but it was a nice drawing of Ariel (because she had a pencil case of The Little Mermaid). She really was a mean person so I'm glad I moved schools after that year. I think I struggled most with the moving because my dad worked as an engineer for pacemakers so we always moved. When I moved in the middle of middle school I spent all my days in the library because I was too scared to make friends. My best friend was the librarian and this is when I started reading HP fanfiction I still have a color coded binder with all the fanfics from SugarQuill. I also went through so many different identities during this time. I was part of an emo/rock group (they were hardcore Slipknot fans), then cheer team, then atlethic group (from soccer), then my last group of misfits so yea I went through the whole cycle before I became comfortable with myself. (This became a novel sorry)

And this forum is really lovely (for the most part )

kuensukki wrote: I think I struggled most with the moving because my dad worked as an engineer for pacemakers so we always moved. When I moved in the middle of middle school I spent all my days in the library because I was too scared to make friends. My best friend was the librarian and this is when I started reading HP fanfiction I still have a color coded binder with all the fanfics from SugarQuill. I also went through so many different identities during this time. I was part of an emo/rock group (they were hardcore Slipknot fans), then cheer team, then atlethic group (from soccer), then my last group of misfits so yea I went through the whole cycle before I became comfortable with myself. (This became a novel sorry)

I moved countries quite a bit too and I actually think that is why my identity and personality are quite undefined, unset and a bit bland. I was thinking about that the other day. I love that it has given me maturity, independence, perspective and open-mindedness (imo) but I also think it makes it really difficult to become one heterogenous person with one personality when you have the opportunity or even this call to become a different person each time you move.

um hi everyone
i was bluecaterpillar on gg, (i don't think anyone will remember me, i didn't have all that many posts) but i hadn't been to that site for a few months, so it was only when i visited this morning that i saw all the drama that had happened and found directions to here.
-my name is sabrina

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-i really love harry potter
-ravenclaw bitches