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Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 9:57 am
by captainspacecoat
gohomohowell wrote:[offtopic]Just found myself scrolling through Bryony's Twitter and found that she's a Love Island fan. Did we ever get to hear why Dan and Phil didn't watch it this year? Non-British people be warned but it's the best damn reality show in the UK currently. Seriously, everyone from your grandmother to Stormzy was watching it so it's weird Dan and Phil didn't join in on the hype - yes, it's a predominately heterosexual show wherein people couple up, but the friendships are fire and the challenges/arguments are so funny and entertaining.[/offtopic]
Phil did start watching it and said he was obsessed with it for like a week before getting bored with it, as he said he couldn't really handle the drama of it after a while. I can't remember which liveshow he talked about it in, but I'm guessing it would have been around the time the show first started airing, and just before the UK election as I'm sure I remember Phil being a bit miffed he'd miss an episode due to Dan wanting to watch the election coverage. I'm also pretty sure it was Bryony that introduced him to it.

Also hope everyone in Edinburgh has a great time!

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 10:36 am
by LtrllySusan
One step forward and three steps back? This better be a paraphrasing error, I thought they had finally abandoned the mutual friend/met in Manchester lie.

Curious to see the full recording.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 10:43 am
by captainspacecoat
LtrllySusan wrote: One step forward and three steps back? This better be a paraphrasing error, I thought they had finally abandoned the mutual friend/met in Manchester lie.

Curious to see the full recording.
Nah, pretty sure it's not an error and they actually did say that lmao: I swear they tell a different version of the story every time they're asked about it, it's difficult to keep up! Weird that they wouldn't just say something like "we met online through the youtube community before eventually meeting up in Manchester where we began to film videos together", instead of downplaying it as convenient by making up the bit about Dan coming there for uni. Peculiar, but I'm not really surprised, smh

I'm not watching the stream but I'm intrigued to catch up on what else happened through recaps/gifs later!

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 10:55 am
by alittledizzy
That was such a good panel for people who want to hear Dan and Phil talk like adults. I really hope some of the interesting things they said don't end up overshadowed by them telling a very location/setting-appropriate version of how they met. The panel wasn't about them as people, and just judging by the pics of the line many people there weren't actually youtube fans, so I don't think there would have been any real need for them to go into the full story of how and why they met. It might be special to us but for Dan and Phil wanting to come off as professionals to a room of peers or people who just thought the panel title was interesting, it would have been extraneous detail.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:14 am
by AroboticPhil
yeah I agree with alittledizzy, I feel like we get so little of Dan and Phil giving us their actual thougts and opinions on 'serious' subjects like staying relevant, their income, their future, etc.. And it was so nice to have someone asking them real and relevant questions about their jobs, I really enjoyed that (tho now I'm craving a 3hours long interview where they talk about the businessy side of youtube and phil reveals all his secrets on how to be a marketing mastermind)

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:16 am
by confusedpanda
captainspacecoat wrote:
LtrllySusan wrote: One step forward and three steps back? This better be a paraphrasing error, I thought they had finally abandoned the mutual friend/met in Manchester lie.

Curious to see the full recording.
Nah, pretty sure it's not an error and they actually did say that lmao: I swear they tell a different version of the story every time they're asked about it, it's difficult to keep up! Weird that they wouldn't just say something like "we met online through the youtube community before eventually meeting up in Manchester where we began to film videos together", instead of downplaying it as convenient by making up the bit about Dan coming there for uni. Peculiar, but I'm not really surprised, smh

I'm not watching the stream but I'm intrigued to catch up on what else happened through recaps/gifs later!
I get they wanna look professional and all but like the problem is, one of these days if an interviewer does their research on them in depth, they can find all the different ways they said they met (not that hard to find all of those ways) and say something along the lines of "oh but you've said you met this way before?" I mean I'm not saying it would happen but you never really know.... anyways, interesting how phil was the one who responded to the question with that. Everytime they were asked before, dan would respond and phil would just nod his head. I wonder if that has something to do with all this.
I literally just woke up, I'll have to watch an uploaded video on this later or something to get what the whole thing was about. From what dizzy says, it sounds good.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:25 am
by alittledizzy
confusedpanda wrote:
captainspacecoat wrote:
LtrllySusan wrote: One step forward and three steps back? This better be a paraphrasing error, I thought they had finally abandoned the mutual friend/met in Manchester lie.

Curious to see the full recording.
Nah, pretty sure it's not an error and they actually did say that lmao: I swear they tell a different version of the story every time they're asked about it, it's difficult to keep up! Weird that they wouldn't just say something like "we met online through the youtube community before eventually meeting up in Manchester where we began to film videos together", instead of downplaying it as convenient by making up the bit about Dan coming there for uni. Peculiar, but I'm not really surprised, smh

I'm not watching the stream but I'm intrigued to catch up on what else happened through recaps/gifs later!
I get they wanna look professional and all but like the problem is, one of these days if an interviewer does their research on them in depth, they can find all the different ways they said they met (not that hard to find all of those ways) and say something along the lines of "oh but you've said you met this way before?" I mean I'm not saying it would happen but you never really know.... anyways, interesting how phil was the one who responded to the question with that. Everytime they were asked before, dan would respond and phil would just nod his head. I wonder if that has something to do with all this.
I literally just woke up, I'll have to watch an uploaded video on this later or something to get what the whole thing was about. From what dizzy says, it sounds good.
I think they just wanted to minimize it; for me it goes back to this interview not being about them as people, but being about their careers and the industry they work in. If I were at a work conference and someone asked me how I met my girlfriend I wouldn't say "Well, we both were super into writing Lord of the Rings erotic fanfic." I'd just say we had a mutual interest. You edit the story to fit the audience. They edited it in a way to evoke as few questions as possible, since that wasn't what they were there to talk about. I feel like most people, even researchers, would understand that.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:30 am
by captainspacecoat
alittledizzy wrote:That was such a good panel for people who want to hear Dan and Phil talk like adults. I really hope some of the interesting things they said don't end up overshadowed by them telling a very location/setting-appropriate version of how they met. The panel wasn't about them as people, and just judging by the pics of the line many people there weren't actually youtube fans, so I don't think there would have been any real need for them to go into the full story of how and why they met. It might be special to us but for Dan and Phil wanting to come off as professionals to a room of peers or people who just thought the panel title was interesting, it would have been extraneous detail.
It definitely sounds interesting, I struggle to watch panels as for some reason I can't handle the thought that there's a live audience there (some weird kind of secondhand embarrassment maybe?) but I'm looking forward to all the gifs that hopefully people will make.

I agree with you that hopefully the rest of the interview won't be overshadowed by this as it's hardly a huge deal, and also that this panel wasn't aimed at their usual audience but moreso at industry professionals. I still stand by though that it's possible for them to tell the truth in such a way that is appropriate in this context - saying they became friends online before deciding to meet up and make videos is hardly explicit, and it is more truthful than implying they only met because Dan was going to Manchester for uni.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:35 am
by simmehchan
https://imgur.com/a/juCZ3

Oh my God, that was amazing! :)

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:39 am
by alittledizzy
simmehchan wrote:https://imgur.com/a/juCZ3

Oh my God, that was amazing! :)
Omg your pictures are lovely!! I think I'm more jealous you met Sue than Dan and Phil!

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 11:59 am
by human
That was SO enjoyable. Afterwards, I hugged them both and Dan said to me "hi again, thanks for coming up here to see us" (lol oops) and I told them both well done for the talk and that it was really interesting and I'd really enjoyed it and they thanked me.

I really enjoyed Dan's answer about vloggers getting bad press, like Zoella. He was so articulate and well spoken, he really got into his flow at this talk and it was a joy to listen to him clearly speaking his mind, feeling relaxed with Sue and getting into his stride; he was fully on. Phil was also exceptionally relaxed I thought, sometimes I feel like he answers things "correctly" but not very personably, and he really came across well today. All In all, I so enjoyed it.

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Also, afterwards I was waiting for flarequake to come out of the loo and they walked past me with Marianne, she nodded at me and I nodded back but didn't really react much since the guys recognise me I guess and I'm not interested in causing a fuss. But I texted the observation below to our WhatsApp group and thought people might be interested:

I watched them walk through the crowded convention floor and nobody else there knew who they were they were all professionals and press and everyone was turning to watch him. He had this really beautiful sort of deer like quality and he gathered attention from people wondering who he was and phil was just following him and kept changing direction as dan did but dan was attracting so much attention. It was so interesting to watch? He just looked especially stunning somehow lol. Floofy hair and skinny jeans. He looked like a poster or a model. Gorgeous.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:15 pm
by alittledizzy
Thank you for that post, human! Your picture turned out amazing, and I love your description of it/them. <3 The periscope stream I watched wasn't top quality but I also got the impression that Phil seemed more relaxed than normal, so it's definitely nice to see that confirmed. I think they had a lot of trust in Sue not to go past boundaries they set.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:15 pm
by chiccola
human wrote: I watched them walk through the crowded convention floor and nobody else there knew who they were they were all professionals and press and everyone was turning to watch him. He had this really beautiful sort of deer like quality and he gathered attention from people wondering who he was and phil was just following him and kept changing direction as dan did but dan was attracting so much attention. It was so interesting to watch? He just looked especially stunning somehow lol. Floofy hair and skinny jeans. He looked like a poster or a model. Gorgeous.
This whole description made me visualize them as some idol duo band or something, with Dan as the lead singer :lol: :lol: :lol:
Glad to hear you had a lovely experience, I wish I saw them in an environment that was more relaxed than a crowded con with people screaming everywhere :)

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:18 pm
by human
I meant to say *popstar not poster haha. Can't edit my post now.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:50 pm
by malday
I watched the interview on periscope, they seemed a bit nervous to me in the beginning always reaching for their glasses of water, but they got better later on.

I think this is the first time Phil said his age and that little joke he made about being scared people would stop watching his videos on his birthday was interesting, i wonder if he really did feel a bit scared (the phandom were making such a big deal). But he has a great attitude about it, and about about making videos and doing what he likes <3.

It was a really great interview.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:58 pm
by liola
human wrote: Also, afterwards I was waiting for flarequake to come out of the loo and they walked past me with Marianne, she nodded at me and I nodded back but didn't really react much since the guys recognise me I guess and I'm not interested in causing a fuss. But I texted the observation below to our WhatsApp group and thought people might be interested:

I watched them walk through the crowded convention floor and nobody else there knew who they were they were all professionals and press and everyone was turning to watch him. He had this really beautiful sort of deer like quality and he gathered attention from people wondering who he was and phil was just following him and kept changing direction as dan did but dan was attracting so much attention. It was so interesting to watch? He just looked especially stunning somehow lol. Floofy hair and skinny jeans. He looked like a poster or a model. Gorgeous.
Your picture is amazing! You all look SO lovely and your description of Dan just made my heart flutter (even though at first I thought you were talking about Phil because that's just how I see him, my poor Phil-girl heart lmao)

That talk was so interesting and relaxed, I really really enjoyed! I adore Sue, I'm such a fan of GBBO and I knew she would be a good choice and I'm glad I was right. She seemed interested and professional and in tune enough with them, and they seemed very into the conversation. One of the things that stood out to me the most was how much Phil actually talked, he went with his bubbly personality and cute answers sometimes but most of it kept it very professional and I had this distinct feeling at one point when Dan was listening to him talk that Phil more often than not must have the lead of the business side of things. It was just really good to watch.

I love how Dan talked about bad reputation of vloggers and brought up Zoe and talked about the whole thing in a defensive but polite way. It's true what he said - you can't help what the majority of people like,there's a reason why something is popular, that doesn't mean that a)there isn't quality behind it and b)there is still such a huge amount of differnt content out there and you just have to find it. If you don't, you just didn't look deep enough, that's how the internet works.

All in all, I can't wait for them to upload the actual video because the periscope was super useful but gave me a headache :mrgreen:

Ps: they were extremely pretty, I love Dan's outfit but I was once again struck by how BROAD Phil's shoulders are. Like..how?? Why do they look broader than Dan's when he's taller? What is this sorcery? Why do I have such a school-girl crush on Phil, I'm an adult :cry:

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 1:27 pm
by ijustwantdeath
will there be a video of it uploaded somewhere? and does anyone know when? I wanna watch it do bad :/

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 6:54 pm
by LtrllySusan
ijustwantdeath wrote:will there be a video of it uploaded somewhere? and does anyone know when? I wanna watch it do bad :/
Yes, here you go:


And there's a new gaming video! Honestly not my favourite. When they're stressed the commentary isn't the best, and imo also too similar to Quick Draw. The funniest part is how the both glow orange due to Dan's shirt.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 7:25 pm
by Susanisnotafish
LtrllySusan wrote:
ijustwantdeath wrote:will there be a video of it uploaded somewhere? and does anyone know when? I wanna watch it do bad :/
Yes, here you go:


And there's a new gaming video! Honestly not my favourite. When they're stressed the commentary isn't the best, and imo also too similar to Quick Draw. The funniest part is how the both glow orange due to Dan's shirt.
I love how deep Phil's voice was in the panel! They both looked so good! I didn't like that zipper dan shirt at vidcon, but I like it with the jacket over. As others have said, it was great to see a more adult panel with no screaming audience. Interesting how their answer to how they will stay relevant was just to keep doing what they're doing. I wonder if they actually have more of a plan but they don't want to share it. I do want them to keep doing what they're doing, but I kind of want them to try other things.

human and flarequake Could you tell if they put makeup on them? They were just looking so good!

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 7:32 pm
by sentinel
LtrllySusan wrote: One step forward and three steps back? This better be a paraphrasing error, I thought they had finally abandoned the mutual friend/met in Manchester lie.

Curious to see the full recording.
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Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 7:38 pm
by alittledizzy
Timestamps for the panel this morning
00:00 - I wanna marry Sue Perkins.
1:17 - Sue pointing out the "youth vigor" that Dan and Phil bought/age diversity.
1:31 - How they met: "It's as dodgy as it sounds."
1:50 - Phil pointing out it's been eight/nine years - he's counting how long they've been together, not how long he's been doing youtube?
2:54 - Origin story.
3:40 - Phil talks about working in WH Smith until someone threw a chocolate orange at him. (Dan quietly calling Phil a nerd.)
4:14 - Dan discussing the differences in when Phil started youtube and when he started youtube.
6:12 - Phil mentions telling his parents that he wanted to give youtube a go and his parents said okay. (Dan supplying the info that Phil had just finished uni.)
6:48 - Dan talking about studying law (Phil: It wasn't your dream.) and taking a year out. Mixes up gap year/high school stories with post-youtube?
7:34 - Dan saying they met after he'd been doing youtube a year.
7:55 - It was scary to try being youtubers, Phil adds that they got more of a viewership because people wanted to watch more of them together and the fandom developed.
8:38 - Dan saying that they didn't have a viral hit, it was years of audience growth and then social media exploded.
9:15 - Numbers, revenue, "Suddenly you can pay rent."
9:28 - Sue asks them about their creative inspiration. Phil tells stories inspired by his own life and things he'd want to watch.
10:13 - Dan says there are no rules and that's liberating but also terrifying. Phil 'fell into comedy' and Dan started making short form comedy videos. Dan thinks about something embarrassing for him that makes other people laugh.
11:39 - Sue brings up tailoring material to an audience, Phil agrees.
12:02 - Phil previously talked about doing a 14 hour monologue, jokes "You could get a lot of ads on that one."
12:30 - Sue wants to deploy dark Phil; Dan says in five years, the inevitable breakdown.
12:58 - Dan is already dark Dan.
14:07 - Talking about the revenue generation; playing to an audience that's investing in your future.
14:28 - Phil: "Yes." (Goes on to say that the revenue inspires you to make more video.)
14:49 - Dan says they're lucky to have a big audience and therefore not have to compromise on content that much. If they had a smaller audience they wouldn't be able to pay rent (at the length and frequency with which they post videos).
15:48 - Phil brings up that the gaming channel; Sue says, "I want your life." and Dan makes a very choked noise.
16:17 - Dan runs through what all a youtuber needs to do; camera and sound and lighting set up, scripting, filming, editing, processing, marketing, PR responsible public face of the channel.
17:34 - Element of snobbishness from television toward youtubers; Dan says there's just a misunderstanding about what they mean in general.
18:48 - Zoella mention, referencing how press treats her.
19:18 - Sue asks if the barrier between tv and internet should be more porous; Phil says he thinks it is now, wasn't four years ago.
19:30 - BBC radio mentions start; Phil says they went through the piloting system but BBC also trusted them to make a good show.
20:22 - Dan mentions Teen Awards and interviewing One Direction.
21:00 - Sue is gonna write an online novella about Dan and Phil spending six minutes in a toilet with One Direction.
21:20 - Sue asks if tv could learn from the instant connection between youtubers and audiences; Dan says yes because it's global and that's a big difference.
23:16 - Phil thinks geoblocking will fade out within the next half decade.
23:48 - Dan says because people will rip it and put it online if they want to see it anyway.
24:22 - Sue asks if they wanted to be performers as kids; Phil wanted to be a weatherman.
26:28 - Dan said they've had conversations with BB3 and BBC comedy but it didn't seem right; now there's Netflix, YoutubeRed, Amazing.
26:52 - Phil uses Riverdale as an example of what actually works and appeals to young people.
28:21 - Dan reiterates that people need to consider how young people watch things now, and adapt it.
29:05 - Phil says the last proper thing he watched and followed along with was Bake Off (which is dead to him now).
30:00 - Dan talks about the next generation of talent coming from the internet, but needing help from a team to teach and nurture them. YTRed has a team that does that.
32:07 - Sue brings up the youtube generation being open about anxiety.
32:38 - Phil makes a point to say that he thinks if one person is helped by someone talking about anxiety, then it's worth it. "It's brilliant and worth it, completely." Goes on to say that he doesn't get effected by comments, Dan calls him weird.
33:17 - "I try not to get effected by people my content's obviously not been for." He won't change his content as long as there are more thumbs up than thumbs down.
34:01 - "We were born in the fires of the internet." (Sue loves that line.)
34:40 - Dan talks about young people being progressive and unafraid to share vulnerabilities, and that's why people have engaged audiences.
35:04 - Sue points out that it's impressive that Dan knows his own brand.
38:16 - Gordon Ramsay tweet.
39:06 - Phil talks about being 30 and being relieved that people are still watching.
39:30 - Dan can't remember his age.
39:51 - Sue asks them how they stay relevant.
41:20 - They are guinea pigs shaking in the corner of the cage.
41:41 - What would they implement? "The strategy of accessibility and adapting to the times." Fuck, Dan, you've never been hotter. Talk industry to me, baby. Tell me more about how what demographics the television genre isn't addressing adequately enough.
42:51 - And then Dan says AI is gonna kill us all in ten years. Phil: "That's the Dan I know."
43:09 - If Phil were the boss, he'd be the weatherman. Dan: "Endgame." Phil also wants to see more things for young people on television, so they won't complain that young people don't watch television. Dan starts to applaud him, then realizes no one else is applauding Phil. (I hope that was just muscle memory. I hope Dan just walks around the house applauding Phil.)
44:26 - Sue summarizes their POV: don't patronize young audiences, they're socially aware.
45:38 - Still wanna marry Sue Perkins.
Still don't understand people making a big deal about how they explained how they met. They both gave more or less accurate versions of their career paths as youtubers - they just omitted the details that overlapped with their personal backstory/relationship to each other. The interview was so impersonal that there wasn't even any mention of them living together, nothing about their lives save their jobs was relevant to it. Contextually, the way the explained things fit the situation they were in.

This panel wasn't about them, you can't even really compare it to other interviews they did because this wasn't an interview. It was Dan and Phil discussing their stance as professional youtubers and their opinions about the television industry.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 7:52 pm
by human
alittledizzy wrote:Still don't understand people making a big deal about how they explained how they met. They both gave more or less accurate versions of their career paths as youtubers - they just omitted the details that overlapped with their personal backstory/relationship to each other.
This. They condense it because it's not that important or interesting to anyone except shippers, I don't believe there's anything deliberately misleading there. I don't get why people make it such a drama at all lol.

Just lounging in my hotel watching the video, SO happy they've posted it, it was brilliant. [s]I just hope they release the baking video compilation they made as it was absolutely glorious.[/s] YAY! Just got to that part.
Susanisnotafish wrote:human and flarequake Could you tell if they put makeup on them? They were just looking so good!
When I met them afterwards, I honestly didn't notice any piled on make up but I assume Marianne must have whacked some on those pretty faces lol.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 7:53 pm
by Susanisnotafish
human wrote:
alittledizzy wrote:Still don't understand people making a big deal about how they explained how they met. They both gave more or less accurate versions of their career paths as youtubers - they just omitted the details that overlapped with their personal backstory/relationship to each other.
This. They condense it because it's not that important or interesting to anyone except shippers, I don't believe there's anything deliberately misleading there. I don't get why people make it such a drama at all lol.

Just lounging in my hotel watching the video, SO happy they've posted it, it was brilliant. I just hope they release the baking video compilation they made as it was absolutely glorious.
What was the other video they showed that wasn't in the recording?

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 7:56 pm
by human
Susanisnotafish wrote:
human wrote:
alittledizzy wrote:Still don't understand people making a big deal about how they explained how they met. They both gave more or less accurate versions of their career paths as youtubers - they just omitted the details that overlapped with their personal backstory/relationship to each other.
This. They condense it because it's not that important or interesting to anyone except shippers, I don't believe there's anything deliberately misleading there. I don't get why people make it such a drama at all lol.

Just lounging in my hotel watching the video, SO happy they've posted it, it was brilliant. I just hope they release the baking video compilation they made as it was absolutely glorious.
What was the other video they showed that wasn't in the recording?
It was a video of snippets from the TATINOF documentary and bits of older videos I think. Phil actually buried his face in his hands when they showed a bit of his first video and Dan blushed as usual about hello internet. Very cute.

The baking video one was the best one, the whole room responded so well and I felt like afterwards, the people in the room who had no idea who they were at the start now suddenly adored them. I also enjoyed that the boys were watching the videos in the monitors at the front of the stage and laughing along, so cute.

Re: Dan & Phil Part 53: another two months

Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2017 7:58 pm
by fondsmiles
alittledizzy wrote:
simmehchan wrote:https://imgur.com/a/juCZ3

Oh my God, that was amazing! :)
Omg your pictures are lovely!! I think I'm more jealous you met Sue than Dan and Phil!
not gonna lie, I might have stared more at Sue than actual deppy. she's just an icon.

The panel really was so nice. I was so tense at times though, always hoping they leave a good impression on those business people, idek why I felt so nervous :D sometimes i was hiding behind my hands when i thought they might have been too brash or whatever. but they did soooo great, such professionals. I loved how passionate they came across about what they do. They might not have always given the most considerate answers, but I think they for sure left the impression that they are really, really passionate about their kind of content creation and what they do. It made me feel proud!

re: origin story: omg it didn't even occur to me that that would be something people talk about :roll: it felt natural to me when i watched it. there's details about my relationship i don't always share immediately with some/most people, because i know things get judged a certain way. it made sense in this situation to skip a bit on the details of having met online first, because older people might not get that as well or judge them differently for it. that's just sensible adaptation to different audiences.

someone pointed out that they had to put a lot of trust in sue to respect their boundaries.
i think it worked well because she's a queer person who got outed against her will, and i assume knows perfectly well how to not make someone talk about something they don't want to share with that audience.
i kind of kept smiling at those three queer people living their best successful life up there, i know it's small, but those things sometimes feel so valuable to me

human and simmechan, thanks for sharing your pictures and stories! it's so nice to know of idb peeps going there and enjoying it in real life :)