alittledizzy wrote: Fri Oct 13, 2017 11:13 pm
tigertatze wrote: Fri Oct 13, 2017 11:03 pm
kindofatrashcan wrote: Fri Oct 13, 2017 10:55 pm
Hey peeps, i have a question...
Do you think that from now on the phandom is going to be a little extra regarding Dan's mental health? I mean, i can fully picture a ls where the chat is constantly asking if he had a depressive episode that week or something like that and
I feel bad because he explicitly said that he don't want to be indentified by it and i think MAYBE is what the phandom is going to do?
I don't know maybe i'm being pessimistic or something.
(boy english verbs are weird and i don't know how to use punctuation marks)
Tbh that was my first thought when I saw that we are the unicorns bs as well...
I think it's going to be a blessing and a curse type of situation, because the flip side of it is now that if Dan were to say "Hey, no video this week. I know I said so, but it's a rough week." people will not hound him and (dear god, I hope) we also won't see that endless cycle of 'he's lazy, he takes his fans for granted, they're coasting on the fanbase, he's just not hard working like [insert youtuber who uploads twice a day].'
But I'm also on team 'please don't coddle him.'
Basically just this, I hate the thought of people changing the way they interact with Dan, even if it's with good intent. The relationship between Dan and his fans wouldn't be benefitted by constantly trying to treat him "gently", like he can't handle things.
I personally hate stuff like that, when people assume that you can't take care of yourself just because you have a mental health issue- I've had someone walk on eggshells all the time around me after I confided in them about my own mental health issues and it drove me
insane, like I'm literally the same person! I can't speak for Dan but I doubt he told us about this part of himself so that fans would interact with him differently- I'm certainly not going to.
On the flip side I'd hate to see the invasive analysis of whether or not Dan's having a good or bad day, mental health wise. I'm already semi-uncomfortable with how deeply some fans look into things, I'm worried that "depressed proof" would be a whole new "Phan-proof" situation where people are looking for evidence of him having a depressive episode, something that's none of their business. Maybe I'm just being too cynical though, and assuming the worst before it even happens
